random train encounter: m

tbh, i’m not totally sure why i’m writing about this, but here goes anyways.

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on college drinking culture: alcoholism, toxic masculinity, sexual repression, homoeroticism, numbing, and more!

every 2-3 weeks(ish) i talk on the phone with my friend ambroise. over the past four or five years he’s become one of my closest friends, for sure. he lives in paris and even though the time difference could keep us from talking, we make it work. we have such good conversations and it’s just a really nice thing.

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negative emotions are poor drivers of systemic change

on of the books i’m reading right now is focus: the hidden driver of excellence by daniel goleman. i mentioned in my last post about the book that it’s pretty poorly written (and that continues to feel true), but there are definitely some interesting insights.

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james martin on falling in love while being in a religious order

the last thought that really stuck out to me in james martin’s on being interview was a thought about falling in love while being in a religious order (note from james: “So there are monastic orders, which would be cloister and living in monasteries. But [jesuits are a] more — religious order is kind of the broader term.”

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on escaping yourself: why adultery and "finding yourself" by traveling don't work

around 23 minutes in alain de botton’s latest on being interview, he and krista have this little exchange:

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