negative emotions are poor drivers of systemic change

on of the books i’m reading right now is focus: the hidden driver of excellence by daniel goleman. i mentioned in my last post about the book that it’s pretty poorly written (and that continues to feel true), but there are definitely some interesting insights.

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james martin on falling in love while being in a religious order

the last thought that really stuck out to me in james martin’s on being interview was a thought about falling in love while being in a religious order (note from james: “So there are monastic orders, which would be cloister and living in monasteries. But [jesuits are a] more — religious order is kind of the broader term.”

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on escaping yourself: why adultery and "finding yourself" by traveling don't work

around 23 minutes in alain de botton’s latest on being interview, he and krista have this little exchange:

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alain de botton on loving our lovers more like children

alain de botton is one of my favorite contemporary thinkers and his school is life is brilliant. i wish i had started it, haha. maybe i’ll start my own or maybe danielle’s infinite growth platform will turn into something similar.

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james martin on being holy

i’m really into james martin. he makes me want to be a jesuit. i debated being a monk for about a year when took two years off from undergrad. i ended up not doing that because i like sex, but listening to him talk about the world and stuff… it makes me think i could do it.

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