remembering my eloquence

last week, i had the honor of participating in the gathering (aka wedding or marrying) of two people who are extremely dear to me. one of my closest friends and her partner: let’s call them j & b. the reason i’m writing is to remember something that happened that i have already been trying to downplay.

pathways out of asking 'what do you do?'

if you know me well, you know that i hate the question “what do you do?” the reasons for that hate are myriad and i wrote some of those thoughts up a few years ago. some reasons i’d add to that are:

commitment is not a rigidity that leads to breaking

commitment is not a rigidity that leads to breaking.

sci-fi generator (af28): Link - part 3

this story is being written for the af28 collaborative sci-fi generator.

reframe: from saying no to choosing myself

i feel like i wrote about this already but i can’t find it and it’s a pretty significant breakthrough so i want to make sure i write it down and share it.