thanks for that conversation years ago

in the past ten days, two or three different people (alex, sam, and maybe one other) have said something of this effect to me:

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book review: homegoing

Pleasure Activism: The Politics of Feeling Good by Adrienne Maree Brown

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on reading octavia e. butler

so, the octavia e. butler come up is real. i personally attribute it most directly at scale to one adrienne maree brown, but i know it’s more complicated than that. anyway…

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things that make me cry

as a person socialized as a man, i have been conditioned into disconnection with my feelings. this diminishes my humanity in a number of ways that i am still uncovering (and probably will be forever).

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baby they

the other day, i was on a call and one of the folks on the call told us this lovely story. i’m paraphrasing, but you’ll get the picture.

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