the safe space spontaneous couple confession

so here’s a thing i’ve noticed that’s pretty hilarious. many of my friends are coupled. for some of these couples, i have independently relationships with each person. for others, i only know one of them through the other. i often hang out with these couple friends when they’re together, either as me plus them or in larger groups of couples and single people.

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interactive book club reading response: week 4

3 highlights from the #diversityp5js reading this week (chapter 5 & 6)

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want to be in a romantic relationship with me? please read this book and sign this contract

i found out a few months ago that my friend, kendra, made her now-husband read all about love by bell hooks with her before they got married.

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intro to complexity theory

there are many forthcoming posts (and some i’ve already written about systems in general) that deal with complexity. in order to make sure those posts are well-grounded, i feel like it’s important to write through my understanding of complexity theory.

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infantilization, risk (in)tolerance, the western electorate, and mit

this post has the potential to be a doozy but i’m going to try and keep it tight and high-level. let’s see how it goes.

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