there are a few things i didn’t cover in my friend zone post on medium that are actually really important to me. the piece somehow got up to an 8min read and i was trying to keep it under five so i just cut my losses and wrapped it without all the things in it. that’s probably somewhat obvious by all the post scripts lol.
Read more...so something i’ve noticed (and i’m sure i’m not the first) is how often “data” is used as a substitute for relationship.
Read more...in ellen langer’s interview on on being, there was a pair of lines that krista pointed out that rocked me. well, maybe that’s a bit of an exaggeration, but they really did hit me pretty hard. the lines:
Read more...as i put together my most recent medium post, i’ve been doing a lot of thinking about friends, friendship, and community (though i’ve been thinking about that stuff for at least a year). one thing that kept coming up but i couldn’t find a good way to fit in was diversity as it relates to resilience. my thoughts wandered around two dimensions of diversity. one being diversity among my zone 1 & 2 friends and the second being diversity in terms of proximity (i.e. having an appropriate mix of friends from zones 1 all the way out to 4).
Read more...in episode 37 (the complexity of living organizations) of the humancurrent, the guest, dr olog konovalov shared some insights that are so in line with how i think that i might have to listen to the episode again.
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