flash fiction: my son is a vampire

preface: the comment my dad made below is real. this story is a little experiment in taking things from my actual life and turning them into weird worlds.

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on the problems of masculinity: vulnerability and intimacy are off limits to typically masculine men

this is a two-part post about some of the ways that problematic types of masculinity hurts men as well as any society they exist in.

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learning more about my healer self

so lately i’ve been leaning (for several reasons, including some experiences with evolutionary leadership) into my healer self.

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parts of my friend zone thinking that didn't make it into my medium post

there are a few things i didn’t cover in my friend zone post on medium that are actually really important to me. the piece somehow got up to an 8min read and i was trying to keep it under five so i just cut my losses and wrapped it without all the things in it. that’s probably somewhat obvious by all the post scripts lol.

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when data is a substitute for relationship

so something i’ve noticed (and i’m sure i’m not the first) is how often “data” is used as a substitute for relationship.

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