new question to live: how to be angry without being mean?

twice yesterday the topic of anger came up for me pretty strongly.

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current phone protocols to minimize addiction and maximize productivity

in late may i had the idea to write up my current phone/text message protocols and i’m just getting around to it now. here are the few things i’m doing right now to undermine the ways that ubiquitous phone and phone-based internet/social media usage undermines focus and my ability to flow.

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part 1: quandry with my own blackness

preface: this is a topic i feel a lot of resistance writing about, but as i move through the world towards the work that i sense in mine to do, it's becoming increasingly impossible to avoid it. in fact, i would say that the sensations i'm feeling are indicating that this is part of the work i need to be doing right now.

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3 paths, one truth: change the current reality and the systemic reality at the same time

in the past couple of weeks, i’ve had the same insight come to me in three different pathways.

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the spontaneous couple confession

for the past many years, i’ve noticed something that i’ve started to call the spontaneous couple confession (scc).

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