i want to steward a house or a retreat center

i have been excited about living alone for a long time and in a couple of different ways. for more than a decade i have been attracted to asceticism (i seriously debated becoming a monk when i was 19-21). and since breaking up with my last long-term partner (we broke up in 2015 after ~6 yrs together), i have been dreaming of living solo for a bunch of reasons:

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book list for lanard

for my cousin.

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protests are not a measure of your solidarity

content notice: written descriptions of violence.

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lovenote from a future beyond gender

in honor of the black trans folx whose lives were cut short in may/june 2020: riah milton, tony mcdade, rem'mie fells, nina pop, helle jae o'regan.

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4 weeks of elemental meditation

for four weeks, i will be offering a 30-minute meditation call on wednesday mornings, 9-930a ET. we will gather on zoom each week and use one of the 4 elements as an anchor for our attention. we will intend to learn from the element for that week and yet be open to anything and everything that arises.

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