in the last 6 months i’ve given 2 napping workshops and i’ve got at least one more coming up before summer. here are some thoughts that i’ve had before or in them:
the time is now to start telling my family and close friends all the things i want to tell them. why wait?
i want to set up hang dates with my nibblings asap
it’s time to set up hang outs with all my friends and friend groups
why is everything so dusty all of a sudden?!
caden is my first nibbling lost. idk how i didn’t think about that as i’ve been committing myself to them but of course some of them will transition before me. oof. what a devastating thought. i can’t tell if this will impact how many nibblings i want to commit myself to but it definitely makes each commitment feel more weighty. signing on to responsibility for a nibbling means signing on to the possibility that they might die before me and then i will have to grieve them. (on the flipside, i guess by committing myself to them, if i have an impact on their lives and then i die first, they will have to grieve me… hm! what a conundrum…)