i’ve heard a few folks talk about a rule of thumb to estimate the time of healing after the end of a relationship (this is mostly in the context of romantic relationship but it might also apply to friendship, family, etc.). i think the range of times i’ve heard is half the length of the relationship up to the entire length of it. meaning, if you are in relationship with someone for a year, it will take between 6 month and a year to heal from it.
Read more...note: nadav pointed out to me on 29 nov that something was wrong with this blog post. it seems that i somehow overwrote my book review. idk if i will ever rewrite it because i didn’t think the book was that great :grimmace emoji: we’ll see…
Read more...Read more...preface: if you’re curious in the evolution of this experiment/thought/practice, here are the last 3 posts about it: 2021, 2020, 2019.