this is a two-part post about some of the ways that problematic types of masculinity hurts men as well as any society they exist in.
Read more...so lately i’ve been leaning (for several reasons, including some experiences with evolutionary leadership) into my healer self.
Read more...there are a few things i didn’t cover in my friend zone post on medium that are actually really important to me. the piece somehow got up to an 8min read and i was trying to keep it under five so i just cut my losses and wrapped it without all the things in it. that’s probably somewhat obvious by all the post scripts lol.
Read more...so something i’ve noticed (and i’m sure i’m not the first) is how often “data” is used as a substitute for relationship.
Read more...in ellen langer’s interview on on being, there was a pair of lines that krista pointed out that rocked me. well, maybe that’s a bit of an exaggeration, but they really did hit me pretty hard. the lines:
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